Now offering Teletherapy services!

In the modern age, where everything is being done via the web, psychologists are now offering individual therapy sessions via the web/phone.

What does this mean for our patients and the average consumer???

Studies as far back as 10 years ago have demonstrated CBT delivered via web/phone as equally effective as face-to-face treatment. Treating clinicians and patients were also measured on the quality of their relationship, which statistically did not differ from face-to-face sessions.

It is important to note that these studies focused on the delivery of CBT (evidence-based treatment that focuses on independent skill development) via the web/phone.

We receive calls from across the country, especially in parts of Maryland and Virginia (DC is relatively small) that cannot get access to services. Please be informed of what is available to you and how to reach out to get the most evidence-based treatment for your anxiety and/or depression.

Have a wonderful Halloween and a good time facing your fears!

Dr. K


Fairfax County Public Schools Mental Health Wellness Conference

Just a small note, as things start to pick up this school season. I will be presenting at the Fairfax County Public School Mental Health Wellness Conference. Teens, parents, coaches, educators, mental health providers, and community and faith-based organizations that work with teens are invited to participate at the 4th Annual Mental Health and Wellness Conference on Saturday, September 29, 2018.

The topic I am presenting on is ““Failure to Launch” in Young Adults: How to Get Your Child to Be a Successful Adult.”

Come by and say hi!

Dr. K

The “How-to’s” of finding the right fit for mental health treatment:

The How-to’s of finding the right fit for mental health treatment:

  1. Do your research. Google can be our worst and best friend, depending on how you use it. Our recommendation is to type in “evidence-based treatment for ____ (whatever symptoms you are suffering from).”
  2. Use or  (their “therapist finder”) to find the right therapist for anxiety and/or depression.
  3. When to use Psychology today listserv (
    1. We recommend using this site when you need to find someone in your local area and/or someone who takes your insurance
    2. We do not recommend using this site when you are looking for a mental health provider who has a specialty. There seems to be little oversight in regards to whether clinicians actually have the specialties they report on the website. ALWAYS check in with your future clinical about their experience in the area you which to get treatment in.
  4. If you need medication services:
    1. For lower-level severity cases you can use your Primary Care Physician or Pediatrician for your child.
    2. If you have more than one diagnosis, you are on the more moderate-severe end, or a complicated case, we recommended seeing an actual Psychiatrist.
      1. TIP: Psychiatrists in-network with insurances tend to have longer wait lists than those seen out of network.



Cool facts about Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Cognitive-behavioral therapy is an evidence-based treatment for anxiety and depression (and other disorders as well) in children, adolescents and adults.

Here are some cool facts about it:

  1. Only 15% of mental health professionals have learned TRUE CBT (which includes exposure-therapy)–ONLY 12% practice!
  2. CBT has effectiveness rates of 60-90%. The more invested in treatment you are, the more your success rates increase!
  3. CBT is geared to be short term (3-6 months)
  4. CBT is skills-based; you learn the tools to handle/ cope with anxiety and depression on your own….
  5. CBT can be fun! While learning a lot about yourself, you will also have some fun pushing your limits and increasing the belief that you can handle anything that comes your way!
  6. CBT has better short-term AND long-term effectiveness rates compared to medication alone! Meds stop working once you stop taking them, but CBT can last a lifetime!
  7. Proper CBT is NOT “manualized.” It is flexible and designed for your individual needs.
  8. Ask your therapist what type of treatment they give you and WHY. Remember you have a voice in your treatment, it’s not just up to your therapist!

ADHD and your child

I recently presented on ADHD across the age spectrum at the Anxiety and Depression Association of America.

Here are some neat facts and figures from the presentation I hope you find helpful

  1. ADHD is the actual diagnosis-there is no such diagnosis as “ADD”1.
    1. Diagnostic criteria
      1. A child or adolescent needs to meet six out of nine possible inattentive symptoms and/or six out of nine possible hyperactivity/impulsivity symptoms.
      2. ADHD has three iterations: (1) predominantly inattentive, (2) predominantly hyperactive/impulsive, and (3) combined, based on how many symptoms in each diagnostic category an individual meets.
        1. 6 or more symptoms of inattention:
          1. Poor attention to detail poor sustained attention
          2. Poor task completion poor organization
          3. Procrastination distractibility
          4. Forgetfulness
      3. 6 or more symptoms of hyperactivity/impulsivity:
        • Behaving as “driven by a motor”
        • Excessive talking interrupting
        • Difficulty waiting one’s turn
        • Fidgeting leaving one’s seat
  1. 3-5% of child and adolescent populations have ADHD, some studies reporting as high as 11% (Michielsen et al., 2013).
  2. 10% of preschool children (ages 2-5) will have pre-pathological ADHD behaviors that begin to emerge.
  3. Highest rate of comorbidity is with externalizing disorders  (conduct disorder and oppositional defiant disorder) and secondarily, Depression and generalized anxiety were among the most comorbid internalizing disorders.
  4. 20-30% of children (<18 years of age) will have a diagnosable, comorbid anxiety disorder with ADHD.
  5. CBT treatment has better effectiveness rates than stimulant medication (longer-lasting).

More on this topic in the next blog!


Spring time stress and kids

Right about now, it has been a few months since your child has been on a significant break from school. In my practice, I have been witnessing children and adolescents experience high levels of stress before spring break.  In the time between Christmas/winter break and spring break parents can enact several strategies to decrease the stress in their child (and therefore increase their academic performance and emotional stabilization):

  1. Give them a break as needed (e.g., 1x per 2 months). If they need to take a half day off or a full day of school, it is ok to allow them to have a “mental health day” (although make sure that it is not an unhealthy trend that is beginning).
  2. Encourage them to participate in behavioral activation activities (i.e.,  combining pleasurable activities with ones that get them up and physically moving).
  3. Monitor sleep and electronic use. Too much electronic use can disrupt sleep and can negatively affect how your child is regulating their emotions. Also monitor how they are currently sleeping, are they getting enough sleep? (should be 7-9 hours per night).

Try these and see if it makes a difference in your child’s and your family’s quality of life!

New parent anxiety

There is a lot of research out there regarding postpartum depression, but a lot of parents do not know about the postpartum clinical anxiety.

Some quick facts and figures:

  1. Approximately 75% of women experience postpartum blues (looks like clinical depression, but self-resolves within 2 weeks post birth) after birth.
  2. Of those women, around 20% will go on to experience postpartum depression.
  3. 16% will go on to experience postpartum anxiety (although you do not have to experience postpartum blues beforehand)
  4. Only 20% of OBGYNS screen for postpartum anxiety (which, although related, is different from assessment for postpartum depression)
  5. The majority of OBGYNs first line of treatment are SSRIs, antidepressants, which take 4-6 weeks to BEGIN working
  6. A small majority of OBGYNS recommend CBT (cognitive-behavioral therapy) treatment
    1. CBT treatment for postpartum anxiety and depression is evidence-based and begins to work right away. The effects will also maintain post SSRI treatment completion.

Great sites for finding a CBT therapist, especially ones that can do home visits in the postpartum period are and

And if you are in the DC area, our center also does this type of treatment, with home visits (

Remember that a happy mommy and daddy means a happy baby!

How to know when to get help for your child

The medical field, including the mental health field, typically addresses curative problems as opposed to preventative. Curative refers to problems only after they have reached a diagnosable clinical level. Oftentimes, people wait for their problems to reach the clinic/curative level before coming in for treatment. This can result in longer, more intensive and expensive treatment. What can you look out for when it comes to knowing when to come in?

  1. Has your child’s problem become too frequent (i.e., more than 2x a week)?
  2. Has your child’s problem become severe (i.e., even if not occurring frequently, when it comes, does it come with a very high intensity)?
  3. Do you find your child’s self-report is inconsistent with the school’s report?
  4. Does your child ask for outside help?
  5. Pay attention to your parental intuition. Clinical psychologists/mental health providers may be the experts in anxiety, depression and behavior, but you are the expert in your child. If your alarms go off (even in the slightest bit), it’s time to pay attention now, and not wait until the alarm is glaring.
  6. Has school mentioned more than 1x that your child demonstrates anxious, depressed or behavioral problems?
  7. Has school asked for a meeting with you about your child’s behavior or anxiety/depression?

If you answer “yes” to any of these questions, it may be time to seek professional help. Remember that if you get help sooner rather than later you can reduce expense, duration, and intensity of treatment.

Recommendations on how to take care of yourselves as parents this holiday season

  1. Take 30 minutes 2-3x a week to “refill your energy cup.” With all the small stressors in life, especially during the holiday season, our “cups” can become depleted. Here are some activities that can help replenish your mental health energy resources (self-care strategies that combine behaviorally activating/getting up and moving):
    1. Going for a walk (and listening to music)
    2. Going to an enjoyable volunteer event
    3. Going shopping (but only if it’s enjoyable)
    4. Taking a pleasurable exercise class
    5. Cooking
    6. Playing a family game
    7. Fill in the blank—just make sure it combines you becoming physically activated with an enjoyable activity
  2. Quiet your mind
    1. Plan out mindfulness activities, including mindful eating, or scanning your body for stress and employing strategies such as progressive muscle relaxation or diaphragmatic breathing can be very helpful
  3. Saying “No”
    1. The holidays are a time where we can say “yes” to everything. It is important to know your limits. Don’t overextend!
  4. Knowing when to ask for Help
    1. Don’t be afraid to ask your kids for help, in addition to friends and family. Kids are more than capable of holding their own, we just have to give them that opportunity.

To all my parents reading this blog. You are amazing!!! Remember you are just as important to prioritize! Happy holidays!